He told the messenger to return home and inform Nandi that she was stricken with "ishaka", which was thought to be an internal beetle that suppressed a woman's menstrual cycle.When Nandi gave birth to a son she named him uShaka and word was sent to the Zulu tribe to come and fetch Nandi and her son.
Not only was Shaka illegitimate but Nandi's mother, Mfunda, was a daughter of Kondlo the Qwabe chief, and marriage between these tribes was forbidden.
Remember that the two sons of Ntombela were Qwabe and Zulu. A chief could however do no wrong, so with this double disgrace over her she was brought in as the third wife of Senzangakona, without any marriage ceremony.
The relationship between Senzangakona and Nandi was never really good and she felt very unwanted and neglected. Fortunately Senzangakona's head wife Mkabi showed her sympathy and took her under her wing. Mkabi was related to Nandi.
A sister to Shaka, Nomcoba, was born but the first six years of Shaka's life in the Zulu tribe were very unhappy years, aggravated by him seeing his mother's unhappiness.
At the age of six in a moment of negligence he allowed a dog to kill a sheep entrusted to his care. He was admonished by his father and Nandi defended him. This further angered Senzangakona resulting in him banning Nandi her son and daughter from the tribe. They were returned to the Elangeni tribe in disgrace as they considered her to have let down the Elangeni tribe as well as forcing them to return the lobola or bridal price to the Zulu tribe. Shaka spent his childhood years here subjected to much bullying by the other boys of the tribe.
He was most unhappy during this time and he was further ridiculed because the small size of his genitals. He built up an abiding hate and resentment for the Elangeni people and this resulted in a fierce driving force within him to excel and to dominate in all activities.
He became introverted and antisocial and this further aggravated the way people felt about him.
Shaka on one occasion killed a Black Mamba, one of Africa's most dangerous snakes that had bitten and killed a bull in his care.
Chief Mbengi of the Elangeni tribe called him up before the people of the tribe and congratulated him for this brave deed by giving him a goat.
When it became apparent that he was gaining sexual maturity he was sent back to the Zulu tribe to undergo the ceremony of attaining puberty and was presented with his umutsha, which was an apron of skins to cover his genitals. Before puberty all boys ran around naked.
Shaka rejected this umutsha because he now had attained normal genital development and wanted to show everybody that he was normal, after all the teasing he had been subjected to as a boy. Public protocol eventually forced him to wear at the least an umncedo, which was a woven cup-shaped object that was attached to the end of a man's penis. Although nearly naked, a Zulu man was considered to be acceptably clothed if he wore only this.
He was resented by the older boys because he far surpassed them in all sports and outdoor activities and his burning desire to lead was considered arrogant.
Around about the year 1802, this part of what is now called Zululand experienced a very severe drought referred to as "Madhlatula", which literally means "Eat what you can get and keep quiet". This was in contrast to the Nguni habit of sharing whatever food they had with others. Nandi could no longer provide for her children, so she left with them for Mpapala at the headwaters of the the Amatikulu River, where a man named Gendeyana of the Mbedweni tribe resided. Nandi had previously born him a son named Ngwadi, Shaka's half brother. They stayed there for a while but Shaka was now over fifteen and had no rightful place in this tribe and both the Zulu tribe and the Elangeni tribe were trying to enforce his return to be incorporated in their tribes. Nandi instead chose to go to her Aunt in Mthethwa land.
Both Nandi, Shaka and his sister Nomcoba, were vagrants and had no real social standing, and as such were not well received. Eventually an induna (headman) called Ngomane, son of Mqombolo of the Mdletshe clan treated them with kindness, which Shaka never forgot, and settled them with a man named Mbiya. Mbiya became Shaka's foster father and roll model and for the first time in his life was treated with kindness and respect. |